Hi giggles Happy New Year, If you have your partner in bed its wise to use a safety pin to secure the catheter to the sheet with plenty of slack and as long as the insertion site is clean, smell free you should have no problems.
He can also use a Staclock Foly to secure the catheter
http://www.statlock.com/foley-catheters/44-statlockr-foley-stabilization-device I started to get a rash from the glue but I felt more secure with it.
It would be good to reassure your man that you know exactly where the tubing is to help relax him. The last thing he needs is having it pulled hard.
It has been 8 years now with no trouble touch wood
